@Athena you are completely misreading this.
> by means other than telling trans folks to think of the feelings of cis people.
That's the OPPOSITE of my ask - I'm asking OUR allies to think of the feelings of people like US* (the queer, disabled, POC, immigrants, etc) who have to survive everyday in the country that hates us.
*("Us" being an inclusive word for people, not "the US.")