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What is this with women telling their potential new husbands that they want to marry them but they don't want a romantic or sexual relationship, and offering said potential husband permission to date other people to have those needs met while knowing FULL WELL that NO WOMAN will touch him because she's not gonna believe him.

Most women are gonna think he's running some kind of game on them!

Women, stop doing this shit!

Dani Hensley

If you aren't ready for a romantic or sexual relationship, don't waste a man's time and build him up to the point of being so serious with you that you're telling him "I want a life with you, I wanna be your wife, I just don't want a sexual or romantic relationship".

If some of you doing this are aromantic and/or asexual, YOU NEED TO DISCLOSE THAT BEFORE DATING SOMEONE!! Don't fucking string someone along until things get super serious, and marriage is being talked about!!

I'm aware that more and more people are identifying as aromantic and/or asexual, and are keeping this a secret from their partners while making excuses for why they aren't able to be affectionate/romantic or sexual with their partner, and it's resulting in a lot of broken relationships and distrust because of the lack of disclosure....not to mention hurt feelings and heartbreak.

Not EVERYONE is aromantic or asexual! Stop expecting everyone to be!