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crypticcelery<p>There I was, next to the pond. I had carefully approached, settled down, and the ducks seemed to be less evasive.<br>I got out my camera, and in calm and practiced motions put on the sun hood, removed the lens cap, released the zoom lock, went to maximum focal length, and checked the settings. Aiming at the nearest duck, in the corner of the screen, I saw the "no card" indicator...<br>Checking the compartment, I indeed left the card at home, in my computer... well, that was that.</p><p><a href="https://chaos.social/tags/ADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ADHD</span></a> <a href="https://chaos.social/tags/Photography" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Photography</span></a></p>
John Refior<p>"'We have a clinical definition of A.D.H.D. that is increasingly unanchored from what we’re finding in our science.' ... The preferred treatment for A.D.H.D. remains stimulant medications"<br><a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2025/04/13/magazine/adhd-medication-treatment-research.html?unlocked_article_code=1._U4.TfKC.evgb_b6QSaQs&amp;smid=nytcore-ios-share&amp;referringSource=articleShare" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">nytimes.com/2025/04/13/magazin</span><span class="invisible">e/adhd-medication-treatment-research.html?unlocked_article_code=1._U4.TfKC.evgb_b6QSaQs&amp;smid=nytcore-ios-share&amp;referringSource=articleShare</span></a></p><p><a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/GiftArticle" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>GiftArticle</span></a> <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/ADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ADHD</span></a> <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/pharma" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>pharma</span></a></p>
Dave the Nomad 🇨🇦<p>I was diagnosed with inattentive type ADHD, which led to learning about Autism and finally self-identifying as Autistic.</p><p>I made a conscious decision not to seek a professional diagnosis, because I'm comfortable enough with my self-dx and I don't believe a professional diagnosis would impact my life.</p><p>That being said, after this latest bout of hyperfixation, I'm feeling more motivated to talk to my doctor and see if I can get a referral to a psychiatrist. Not necessarily to confirm being Autistic, but to rule out or identify other things.</p><p>I've also been off of my ADHD meds because I don't find they make a difference. I'm not confident I actually have ADHD. Those symptoms are the worst when I'm feeling overstimulated and burned out.</p><p>That being said, I'm wondering if stimulants would make a difference when I'm in hyperfixation mode. I wonder if they'd help me regulate my attention and disengage more easily.</p><p><a href="https://autisticnomad.social/tags/ActuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAutistic</span></a> <a href="https://autisticnomad.social/tags/Neurodivergent" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Neurodivergent</span></a> <a href="https://autisticnomad.social/tags/ADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ADHD</span></a> <a href="https://autisticnomad.social/tags/AuDHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AuDHD</span></a></p>
Pablonius Monk 🇺🇦<p>Have We Been Thinking About A.D.H.D. All Wrong? 💊</p><p>With diagnoses at a record high, some experts have begun to question our assumptions about the condition — and how to treat it.</p><p>[S]ome scientists have begun to argue that the traditional conception of A.D.H.D. as an unchanging, essential fact about you — something you simply have or don’t have, something wired deep in your brain — is both inaccurate and unhelpful.</p><p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://flipboard.com/@newyorktimes" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>newyorktimes</span></a></span> </p><p><a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2025/04/13/magazine/adhd-medication-treatment-research.html?unlocked_article_code=1._U4.wwUZ.E1Hz_KDQIuI3&amp;smid=url-share" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">nytimes.com/2025/04/13/magazin</span><span class="invisible">e/adhd-medication-treatment-research.html?unlocked_article_code=1._U4.wwUZ.E1Hz_KDQIuI3&amp;smid=url-share</span></a> </p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/ADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ADHD</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Health" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Health</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/PaulTough" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>PaulTough</span></a></p>
SassyRamen<p><strong>I finally found a way to keep the house (mostly) clean!</strong></p> <p><a href="https://lemmy.world/post/28178801" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="">lemmy.world/post/28178801</span><span class="invisible"></span></a></p>
David Gray-Hammond<p>New Article! Why Autism Awareness &amp; Acceptance Are Relevant To Autism Diagnosis <br> <a href="https://emergentdivergence.com/2025/04/13/why-autism-awareness-acceptance-are-relevant-to-autism-diagnosis" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">emergentdivergence.com/2025/04</span><span class="invisible">/13/why-autism-awareness-acceptance-are-relevant-to-autism-diagnosis</span></a></p><p><a href="https://disabled.social/tags/ActuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAutistic</span></a> <a href="https://disabled.social/tags/autism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>autism</span></a> <a href="https://disabled.social/tags/ADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ADHD</span></a> <a href="https://disabled.social/tags/neurodiversity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>neurodiversity</span></a> <a href="https://disabled.social/tags/neurodivergent" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>neurodivergent</span></a> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/actuallyautistic" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>actuallyautistic</span></a></span> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/autisticadvocacy" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>autisticadvocacy</span></a></span> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/neurodiversity" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>neurodiversity</span></a></span></p>
Robin Riley<p>NYT spent years manufacturing consent for trans people to be unpersoned.</p><p>Given today's article on ADHD, I'd say they're beginning to manufacture consent for RFK Jr's agenda to send people with ADHD and other disabilities to "wellness farms" to be "reparented."</p><p><a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2025/04/13/magazine/adhd-medication-treatment-research.html" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">nytimes.com/2025/04/13/magazin</span><span class="invisible">e/adhd-medication-treatment-research.html</span></a></p><p><a href="https://social.riley.pub/tags/Disability" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Disability</span></a> <a href="https://social.riley.pub/tags/ADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ADHD</span></a></p>
Seth the brave<p>Hey everyone. I'm overwhelmed, emotional and in need of help. My landlord wants me out, because I'm transgender and no longer pray, read the Bible or talk to God. Please read and share the following and if you can support me in any way please do so. </p><p><a href="https://open.substack.com/pub/seththebrave/p/autistic-and-transgender-man-in-need?r=5bhbya&amp;utm_campaign=post&amp;utm_medium=web&amp;showWelcomeOnShare=false" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">open.substack.com/pub/seththeb</span><span class="invisible">rave/p/autistic-and-transgender-man-in-need?r=5bhbya&amp;utm_campaign=post&amp;utm_medium=web&amp;showWelcomeOnShare=false</span></a></p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/autistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>autistic</span></a><br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/autism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>autism</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/actuallyautistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>actuallyautistic</span></a> <br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Neurodivergent" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Neurodivergent</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/AutismAwareness" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AutismAwareness</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/AutismAwarenessMonth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AutismAwarenessMonth</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/adhd" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>adhd</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/trans" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>trans</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/transgender" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>transgender</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/help" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>help</span></a></p>
Scott the F is implicit Baxter<p>All the crap written about autism is from a neurotypical framework, about how autistic thinking is different from normal. <br>And it's almost useless to me. <br>I have to work backwards to infer what normal is relative the way I am. <br><a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/adhd" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>adhd</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/neurodivergent" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>neurodivergent</span></a></p>
Wayne Werner<p><a href="https://anti-planner.com/shop/the-anti-planner-how-to-get-sht-done-when-you-dont-feel-like-it/" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">anti-planner.com/shop/the-anti</span><span class="invisible">-planner-how-to-get-sht-done-when-you-dont-feel-like-it/</span></a></p><p>If you're an <a href="https://fosstodon.org/tags/adhd" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>adhd</span></a> or probably even any neurospicy individual who needs to get stuff done, I can say that the Anti-Planner is pretty heckin' cool.</p><p>And <a href="https://fosstodon.org/tags/DaniDonovan" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>DaniDonovan</span></a> is one of the good ones</p><p><a href="https://fosstodon.org/tags/AntiPlanner" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AntiPlanner</span></a></p>
⠠⠵ avuko<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://piaille.fr/@adelinej" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>adelinej</span></a></span> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://autistics.life/@marionline" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>marionline</span></a></span> samesies!</p><p>I actually build my profession (I’m in cyber incident handling) around this skill. Late diagnosed, so I’ve only came to realise this later in life. My current guess is it is part of my autistic immunity against group-think and group-feel.</p><p>For auties like myself in this line of work, I look for the “when they go fast, we go slow” in people, and I can usually tell from both speech and body language when it comes naturally.</p><p>One downside I’ve found is that I need sufficient (maybe even more than general) time to decompress afterwards, which I’ve found hard for myself to establish. Easier to be more strict about self-care when it’s my coworkers.</p><p>TLDR, although the skillsets differ between <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/ActuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAutistic</span></a> and <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/ADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ADHD</span></a> profiles, I’ve seen them both excel in my line of work where people need to stay calm in stressful environments.</p>
Verđandi K. Soldusty<p>Okay, what happened? I had breakfast, did chores, dragged myself out for a walk, let myself stop three times to look for a long audio cable before getting home, having lunch followed by hanging the washing &amp; now it's nearly teatime 😳?<br>Unless I want to still be up at 03:00 I'd better cancel my afternoon plans.<br>This, this is why I'm mostly frustrated. I need to lock my chores up &amp; only let them out once a week or something 🤷 but it always feels like herding cats. There's always one that's urgent or needs doing before tomorrow, plus I don't fancy tackling seven days of washing up. Where would I put the second half of it?😵‍💫</p><p><a href="https://beige.party/tags/AuDHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AuDHD</span></a> <a href="https://beige.party/tags/Autistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Autistic</span></a> <a href="https://beige.party/tags/ADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ADHD</span></a> <a href="https://beige.party/tags/ActuallyADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyADHD</span></a> <a href="https://beige.party/tags/ActuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAutistic</span></a></p>
Xamanismo Coletivo<p>"When <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/ADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ADHD</span></a> is bad, it’s bad. And when it’s bad, medication can help. But many children and parents have been led to think of A.D.H.D. as a permanent malfunction, when in fact it might be better thought of as a temporary misalignment, brought on by external forces as well as internal ones.</p><p>Finding a solution for that misalignment is important, especially for a family in crisis. But identifying the right solution starts with having a more accurate understanding of A.D.H.D."</p><p><a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2025/04/13/magazine/adhd-children-research-takeaways.html?unlocked_article_code=1._U4.8aU_.pOIjtulFJR5W&amp;smid=url-share" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">nytimes.com/2025/04/13/magazin</span><span class="invisible">e/adhd-children-research-takeaways.html?unlocked_article_code=1._U4.8aU_.pOIjtulFJR5W&amp;smid=url-share</span></a></p>
cheese_greater<p><strong>What is your favorite sleeping shows?</strong></p> <p><a href="https://lemmy.world/post/28171953" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="">lemmy.world/post/28171953</span><span class="invisible"></span></a></p>
🍵 holly<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://climatejustice.social/@mysteriarch" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>mysteriarch</span></a></span> Oh, this is a big issue for me. Because of <a href="https://social.v.st/tags/autism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>autism</span></a> I have deep special interests, but because of <a href="https://social.v.st/tags/adhd" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>adhd</span></a> those interests cycle. If I spend a job amount of time on one, I lose interest and motivation until I focus on one of the others for a while. There are things that I would love to pursue, career-wise, but don't because experience has shown what will happen. It's frustrating, and I would love some solution to it.</p>
🍵 holly<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://tech.lgbt/@quinze" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>quinze</span></a></span> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://disabled.social/@MikeImBack" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>MikeImBack</span></a></span> Here's another fun one:</p><p>Monopolizes the conversation:</p><p><a href="https://social.v.st/tags/adhd" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>adhd</span></a> : Because you are impulsive, or you need to get the full point out before you forget what you were going to say.</p><p><a href="https://social.v.st/tags/autism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>autism</span></a> : Because your special interest has been triggered, and your enthusiasm and need for completeness leads to you overshare information, plus you may have trouble noticing that the other person is getting bored.</p>
🍵 holly<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://tech.lgbt/@quinze" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>quinze</span></a></span> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://disabled.social/@MikeImBack" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>MikeImBack</span></a></span> The problem is, the symptoms _look_ the same from the outside, but the cause &amp; internal experience are different. So, for example:</p><p>Has trouble following directions:</p><p><a href="https://social.v.st/tags/adhd" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>adhd</span></a> : Because you didn't read them thoroughly because of distraction/impatience</p><p><a href="https://social.v.st/tags/autism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>autism</span></a> : Because you feel the need to follow instructions literally, but these instructions were written in an unclear manner, or you also didn't read them thoroughly because of fatigue/overstimulation</p>
🍵 holly<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://tech.lgbt/@quinze" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>quinze</span></a></span> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://disabled.social/@MikeImBack" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>MikeImBack</span></a></span> We went deep into this during my <a href="https://social.v.st/tags/autism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>autism</span></a> assessment because I also have <a href="https://social.v.st/tags/adhd" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>adhd</span></a> . The problem is that autists usually also have exective function problems, but more due to distraction from overstimulation and fixation on details (due to how your brain is wired) rather than having chronically low dopamine in the prefrontal cortex as those of us with adhd. And of course it's possible to have both things at the same time which really muddies the waters.</p>
Mx. Sky Barnes ​:verified420:<p>:boost_request: MUTUAL AID POST 5/120 :boost_request: </p><p>y'all, I need help affording marijuana for my PTSD</p><p>I need $120 for it</p><p>my followers know the kind of crap I've been going through lately, and I really need the help </p><p>if you can spare anything, I would really appreciate it </p><p>thanks in advance, and boost if you can </p><p>Venmo is tsbarnes <br>CashApp is tskybarnes</p><p><a href="https://cyberpunk.lol/tags/mutualaid" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>mutualaid</span></a> <a href="https://cyberpunk.lol/tags/mutualaidrequest" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>mutualaidrequest</span></a> <a href="https://cyberpunk.lol/tags/mutualweed" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>mutualweed</span></a> <a href="https://cyberpunk.lol/tags/begpost" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>begpost</span></a> <a href="https://cyberpunk.lol/tags/trans" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>trans</span></a> <a href="https://cyberpunk.lol/tags/enby" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>enby</span></a> <a href="https://cyberpunk.lol/tags/nonbinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>nonbinary</span></a> <a href="https://cyberpunk.lol/tags/transmutualaid" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>transmutualaid</span></a> <a href="https://cyberpunk.lol/tags/disabled" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>disabled</span></a> <a href="https://cyberpunk.lol/tags/audhd" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>audhd</span></a> <a href="https://cyberpunk.lol/tags/autistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>autistic</span></a> <a href="https://cyberpunk.lol/tags/adhd" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>adhd</span></a> <a href="https://cyberpunk.lol/tags/ptsd" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ptsd</span></a> <a href="https://cyberpunk.lol/tags/help" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>help</span></a></p>
Aday<p>I debated whether to post about this, but I’m sharing my <a href="https://mas.to/tags/ADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ADHD</span></a> diagnosis because the validation has been helpful for me, and seeing others share their stories makes me feel less alone. I’m also sharing because somehow, some people still don’t believe ADHD is real, and I hope to spread awareness 🫶🏽</p>